Whatever your circumstances are right now you can transform your life into something extraordinary if you choose to do so.

The planet we live on throws a lot of surprises our way.

We can't control everything, but there is a lot we can control.

When you make the decision to take control of the controllable you will set a sequence of events into motion that has the potential to turn your life upside down.

The key word here is potential.

Inside all of us is a set of survival skills that is millions of years old.

It wakes you up in the morning, it's what drives you, it's what makes you read this article right now.

It's what made me write this article.

This drive is about going after what you really want.

That thing that you think about all the time.

The thing that you don't tell others about.

Your fantasies about your dream life.

The thing that is so big you are scared too start doing it.

Every single aspect of your life was created by YOU.

When you have the mindset of a victim this will be hard for you to understand.

This, however, is the TRUTH.

If you Accept this truth then keep on reading.

Take the following steps and see how your life transform:

Make A Decision

The first thing you have to do before anything happens is that you need to make a decision.

A decision to change everything.

You need to decide that wherever you are now is not good enough and you are not going to put up with it anymore.

You need to decide that you will do whatever it takes to get what you want.

This has to be your starting point.

This decision links up with the second point on this list.


After you made the decision to change your life you need to look at your life critically and take total ownership of it.

The most powerful moment in your life is when you stop acting like a victim and start taking total ownership for everything in your life.

You are not a victim even if bad stuff happened to you.

Everything in your life, this includes the good, bad and ugly, is all on you.

It's all your responsibility.

You have to own it.

It's yours.

Then you can say”OK, now I'm going to change it.”

Start Doing Things You Hate

Life is not just going to change because you wish it to be different.

You can change reality but it takes a massive effort to transform it.

For you to start making progress you will have to learn to start doing things you hate.

In fact, you are going to start enjoying these things.

You will have to build the mental muscles to do whatever it takes to transform your current reality.

That means doing things that are not fun to get where you want to go.

That could mean doing a shitty job to save money so you can start a business.

That could mean getting up at 5 to go to the gym.

That could mean eating food you don't like so you can lose weight and become healthy.

That could mean sacrificing your free time to work on your business after your normal job.

All these things might not be enjoyable but they will get you closer to your goal.

That is all that matters.

Make Your Body A Priority

Your body will be your machine for your time on this planet.

To get the most out of it you need to make sure it's running at full power.

You need to be strong, flexible and have a good cardiovascular ability.

This means you need to lift weights, stretch and run.

You need to eat healthily and supplement.

You need to do all of this consistently.

If you take care of your body all other areas of your life will improve.

You will feel happier, date more women and be able to outwork everybody else around you.

You will also be able to defend yourself and the people you care about.

Make Your Mind A Priority

Your mindset will be your biggest tool on this journey.

Your brain is your hardware and your mindset is your software.

Loading the software is your responsibility.

Your brain is not designed to make you happy and successful.

Your brain evolved to survive.

It's your job to load the software into your mind that will let you reach your full potential.

You need to make sure that the dominant mindset is one of growth, relentlessness, positivity, execution, and success.

You have to create the environment for this mindset by surrounding your self with resources that will cultivate this mindset automatically.

Expect Setbacks To Come Your Way And Overcome Them.

This is not pessimism, it's just life.

The reality of life is that you will have suffering and setbacks.

If you expect them to happen at some stage then you will not be taken by surprise.

I'm not saying you should think life is always hard.

It's not, you will go through periods of good times and then bad.

If you know this is the nature of reality then you will be ready to deal with setbacks and find ways to overcome them.

When you start a business or new project things won't always go your way.

You experience a lot of challenges and obstacles.

Becoming successful is not easy, in fact, it's very very hard.

However, success is within your reach if you start punching back if life throws shit at you.

Punch back and move forward.

That's how winning is done.

Relentless Execution of Goals

Go sit down in a room and write down all your long-term goals and short-term goals.

When you are done you need to start taking action and execute.

Every day you should do something that gets you closer to those goals.

You need to be relentless to reach those goals.

You need to become someone that never gives up and goes above and beyond your competition to win.

Whatever it takes to reach your goals must be pursued with everything you got in your tank.

This should be done consistently until you get what you want.

Anything less and you will find that you will not reach your goals.

We live on a very competitive planet and you need to accept it.

Become someone that embraces this reality and go after what he wants without making any excuses.