How to become powerful in life?This is something some men wonder about.

But the reality is most men are mediocre, they never even try to reach anything above average.

And most of those who do try to lift themselves from mediocrity fail miserably.

They go out into the world with the hope of reaching their goals but they find themselves colliding with resistance.

Most of them get used as slaves by corporations for 20 years and then get spit out by the system with their best years already behind them.

And when it comes to women they usually fail and get used by women and dumped.

They feel like “bad luck” caused them to get stuck or worse they start believing that they are not good enough.

Negative attitudes like “I just want to be myself” get used as a coping mechanism for why they stopped going after their dreams.

These men dont realize that “being yourself” is false.

In fact, the fictional story these men tell themselves about themselves and the world is the reason why they fail in life.

It's the question that drives us, Neo. It's the question that brought you here. You know the question, just as I did”

– Trinity (The Matrix)

The reality of the world is that 20% of men in the world get most of the money and get access the all the high-value women.

In fact, these elite men don't just get access to money and women, they get an abundance of it.

Now, many of you reading this will say the following:

“But most of those men were born into rich families and privilege”.

And my answer to that is: 

“You are somewhat right yes, there are some people who are born into wealth, but the truth is a very large number of men are not from some privileged background or group.”

There are men who used what they had and created wealth and abundance for themselves and their families.

Now the question is how?

How did these men overcome the system and the gatekeepers?

Well, the answer is that they first figured out that the world is not what most people think it is.

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The World Is Not What You Think It Is

“What you know you can't explain, but you feel it. You've felt it your entire life”

– Morpheus (The Matrix)

To understand this statement you first need to realize one very important thing:

Most people live with a false understanding of reality.

They have been brainwashed to think that the world on the surface is how reality functions.

They think that if you follow all those rules you might make it to the top if you are one of the lucky ones.

They think if you are a nice guy and follow the script of the Disney movie you will finally get a pretty girlfriend or wife.

What the majority of people don't realize is that there exists a reality hidden from 80% of men.

This underworld is available to all but remains occupied by only the powerful who have accepted and mastered this reality.

“Denial is the most predictable of all human responses”

– The Architect (The Matrix Reloaded) 

The irony is that those who get told about this open secret reject it as a lie.

They refuse to take the red pill and choose to take the blue pill and go back to sleep.

The main reason for this rejection is the reality it exposes in terms of the true nature of the world, human beings, and power.

The truth is that the men who get all the power don't play by the same rules as you do.

They live in a world beyond that.

They create their own world.

“Remember,all I'm offering is the truth. Nothing more”

– Morpheus

So now you are probably thinking what is this secret world or reality?

Well, to put it simply, it's an understanding of ancient fundamental principles that have always existed in different forms and are still in used today.

Always remember that even with all our modern advances and developments we still operate with the same power games that existed in tribal communities thousands of years ago.

“What do all men with power want? More power”

– The Oracle (The Matrix Reloaded)

What the gatekeepers don't want you to know is that you are your own biggest enemy.

They don't want you to realize that you are the one putting shackles on your own feet.

They don't want you to realize that you can remove those shackles by making a decision.

The Decision To Master The Laws Of Power

“I don't like the idea that I’m not in control of my life”

– Neo (The Matrix)

You have a choice to make.

One, stop reading this article now and go back into mediocrity.

Or 2 keep reading and learn the fundamentals of this reality and go on to study the laws of power and master it.

“You take the blue pill… the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill ,you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes”

– Morpheus

If you choose option 2 then you have the opportunity of abundance in your life.

You will have to do the work but you will have the opportunity to build a great life filled with wealth and success with women.

When I first learned about how the world really worked I was angry.

All my false understandings about the world were broken.

But I was grateful to have finally learned the truth.

The biggest disappointment was that I didn't know it earlier.

In the end, this knowledge gave me all the freedom and power that I have today.

I lifted myself out of the mediocre and started living a life beyond the masses of men.

You can do the same, but you must make the choice to do so.

You must realize that the longer you keep on doing what you are currently doing the more you will be sucked into the system and the harder it will be to get out.

In fact some people find out the truth and still decide to go back into their fake reality.

A simple and well known analogy is the scene from the movie the Matrix where Neo has choose between the red pill and blue pill.

Morpheus tells him that he can't tell him about the truth ,he has to show him.

“Ignorance is bliss”

– Cypher (The Matrix)

Neo made the right choice, but there is another character in the movie that knows the truth but later decide to go back into the Matrix because he thinks it's easier.

The truth is a challenge but believe me your freedom will give you power that you never thought possible, but only if you are willing to do the work.

“I can only show you the door, you're the one that has to walk through it”

– Morpheus

This is key:


Transformations is only possible if you learn the truth and then do the work to create a new world for yourself.This is key before you can understand the laws of power.

How To Become Powerful: If you do make the choice you must study 3 areas and master them:

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Becoming A High-Value Man

“Neo, sooner or later you're going to realize just as I did that there's a difference between knowing the path and walking the path”

– Morpheus

The first part of your education is built on the following reality:

The higher your value the fewer rules apply to you.

Like I said earlier, you will live in a world beyond normal reality once you master this.

You will become the type of man that women want to be with and that other men want to be.

Becoming a high-value man firstly means embracing your masculinity and not rejecting it.

We live in a modern world that has made an enemy out of traditional masculinity.

Unfortunately the masses of blue pill men have embraced this lie and have sided with feminists and their anti-men groups.

The irony is that these men still get frustrated that the feminists still end up being attracted to the so-called “toxic masculinity ” that they claim to hate.

The masculine alpha will always be the first choice for both high-value women and even feminists.

Remember that what women say they are attracted to and what they really find attractive are 2 different things.

The bottom line is this:

You need to increase your masculinity not decrease it. You need to become more masculine on all levels.

That means building a more masculine mindset, masculine body, and a masculine presence.


“The body cannot live without the mind”

– Morpheus (The Matrix)

Your mindset is not just magically going to change.

This is the problem in the modern world.

People think they can just sit back and things will magicly change when the time is right.

If you are thinking this way then you are going to wait for a very long time.

The human mind is a very complex and ancient machine and that are capable of incredible things.

But it's only capable of incredible things if you get control of it and master it.

Most men unfortunately allow their minds to control them and that is why there lives are out of control.

So you must get control over your mind and to do this you must get specialized knowledge and then apply this knowledge consistently in your life.

Like with everything else of value this will take consistent hard work.


Another key component of being a masculine man is having a healthy,flexible and powerful body.

It alls start with making a decision and living a disciplined life.

Being a masculine man is not just about looking good,it's also being able to do things that men should be able to do:

Being able to fight,run,jump,swim,lift ect.

As men we have a responsibility to lead and defend.

So you must step up and take it.

And when it comes to looks you must develop and maintain it.

Whether you want to dat many women or meet one women for a relationship you need to develop and maintain your body.

Don't fall for the trap of believing “Looks don't matter”.

We all know they matter.

This doesn't mean you have to look like a movie star.

But take what you have and make it the bets possible version of who you are.

If you do that I promise you the world will respond to you differently.

Remember most men are mediocre,so if you stand out people will notice.

Lastly and most importantly,your health is extremely important so that you can enjoy everything you have created on this planet as long as possible.

So you must do the work and create and maintain a powerful body.

This will create happiness for yourself.

It will create admiration and respect from other men.

And it will spark attraction in women.

Masculine Presence.

If you work on your mind and body then a masculine presence should come relatively easily.

However there are some social dynamic elements you must master to elevate your masculine presence.

Understanding Women And Female Nature

How to become powerful must include understanding female nature.

You must learn to understand women.

Most men become bumbling idiots around women.

They think women are mysterious, innocent, and shouldn't be questioned.

We now live in the sad reality that a lot of men have become male feminists.

These are the men too far gone to bring back.

If this is your first time on this website then I have good news, the fact that you are reading these words means there is hope for you.

You have made it this far looking for solutions and you have found them.

Understand that most men get controlled by women.

And most men end up losing their wealth and happiness through a divorce.

They lose everything and dont know why or how it happened.

If you think I'm going overboard with this statement then go look at the divorce numbers that are at 50% and these are the men that made it that far.

Remember that a lot of men get trapped in unhappy marriages and fear leaving their wives.

They lead lives of quiet desperation.

They wake up at 70 and realize they wasted their lives don't let this be you.

The reality is that the culture is set up to sell a certain narrative that is not in your best interest.

They have created a very powerful entertainment and news industry that spits out propaganda 7 days a week and 24 hours a day.

They have made sure people get sucked into celebrity culture by creating stars that think and act in a specific way.

These starts then become role models for the masses.

And the masses think if they act the same way that they will win.

Unfortunately that is not the case.

Another important part of the puzzle is that the gatekeeps made sure there is cheap TV's available for every household so can program their obedient followers every singe day of the week.

That way can get controlled.

They tell you how to think and act.

And as we all know most who follow this path end up unhappy and unfulfilled.

People get constantly programmed or brainwashed to think in a certain way.

This is the reason why most people you meet think in the same way and act in a similar way.

People spend hours,weeks ,months and years watching TV shows and movies that plants seeds in their minds about how they should think and act.

Have you ever noticed how in TV shows especially men are seen as weak idiots?

Have you ever noticed how movies have a script where the man is the one that must open up, and share his feelings?

And a lot of the movies show how men must pursue women and beg her for her companionship until she finally realizes he is the man for her?

These are all example how men get programmed to think and act in a specific way.

They are programmed to not act in their own best interest.

If you want to avoid this reality then you need to learn the truth about women and how to overcome this reality.

The problem many men have is that their conditioning in the system is so strong that they find it almost impossible to even consider the truth.

So they keep on repeating the same mistakes and still do not understand why it keeps happening to them.

“Truth is not what you want it to be; it is what it is.

And you must bend to its power or live a lie.”

-Miyamoto Musashi

When the truth comes knocking, realize that the truth is not always what you want it to be.

But that doesnt mean its not true.

Don't be one of those men.

Choose truth above fiction.

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Social Dynamics

“To deny our own impulses is to deny the very thing that makes us human”

– Mouse 

The final part of the puzzle is social dynamics.

This is having the skills to master both your professional and personal lives and come out on top.

In other words, you must learn how to play the game that is being played out in the world.

As I mentioned earlier, the world is not what it seems, and you need to understand your opponents and the psychological techniques they will try and use against you.

You must also master the social and emotional games women will use against you to test and manipulate you.

Guess what?

If you don't know these games, you lose.

A very large part of success is about mastering and understanding social dynamics.

If you want to be a powerful player in your profession then you must master this part of power.

It does not matter if you have a traditional job, profession, or business.

An understanding of the underlying game that is always being played is vital to your success.

You can have a defensive attitude and tell yourself that you don't want to play games.

But guess what?

The world will play the games whether you want to play them or not.

The game will be used against you whether you like it or not.

You either understand the games or you lose under their sword.

The choice is simple.

You either understand power or become a victim of it.


Social dynamics has many aspects to it, but let's look at it in terms of dating specifically.

One of the big reasons why men don't succeed with women and dating is because they have no idea how to read social situations.

So even if they try to read a normal dating advice book they will fail.

They fail because they don't know how to read people and situations.

You must have the ability to look at a woman and evaluate her very quickly.

For example, how is she dressed?

How is her body language?

And then you must be able to look at the situation as a whole and make a judgment call.

For example:Is she alone?

Is she in a group?

Is she the leader of the group?

Does she talk a lot?

The reason why it is so important to evaluate an individual,group or situation is because every person you approach will be different.

It will be different based on the individual and the situation.

Because  if you tried to approach a woman in the same way you approach a different woman in another venue on another day you fail.

Sure the fundamentals stay the same but you must be able to calibrate yourself to the unique situation in front of you.

You must become a chameleon socially.

You must become the master of any room and that will take time and practise.

More importantly you will need knowledge.

A lot of men give up on having a great social life or getting a girlfriend because they have a fixed mindset and don't think they can change.

Therefore they don't.

Like I said before, you must master this or get left behind.

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“You have to let it all go, Neo – fear, doubt, and disbelief. Free your mind!”

– Morpheus

So now you are aware of the truth and like I mentioned before you have a choice.

You can stop reading and go back home to complain about how unfair life is or you can get into the top 20% of men and start living life on your terms.

If you want to start living as a free man that lives life in a world beyond the normal world then you must learn and study the truth about power.

The days of you placing limits on yourself must stop right now.

You now know how to become powerful.

It's time for you to become one of the Illimitable Men.