I started my book list last week with the best books on motivation for men. So this week it's the best men's dating books. So the main focus of this article will be the top dating books for men.
Dating advice for men is a topic that is getting more attention these days. However, it's still something that the mainstream doesn't really talk about.
It's something that is frowned upon by modern society. Many think it's men tricking women in some way. Yes, it's an absurd way of looking at it but this is the world we live in today.
I guess it all started with the old school dating books that were underground in the beginning and then gradually started to get more attention.
And then a lot of women and feminists started losing their minds over it. It's kind of ironic that it has gotten so much criticism because women have had talk shows, magazines, and other forms of dating advice for a long time.
But when a group of men figured out that they too can team up and figure out how dating can be improved all of a sudden it became a problem for the feminists and their friends.
So whatever the criticism of these so-called “Pickup Artists ” are they did start a movement that evolved over the years.
Many different approaches to meeting and dating women evolved and men gravitated to whatever group they felt comfortable with.
I started reading some of these books about 10 years ago and it helped me with improving my dating life. But the most important part of these dating advice books was the fact that they send me on the road towards personal development. That is what a lot of these books and gurus indirectly point towards.
Many of them have one big underlying premise. Improve yourself and you will find it easier to meet and date women.
One more thing!
I want to preface this list with the following statement:
I don't fully agree with the philosophies of all these books.
Some I agree with more than others. But I learned from all of them.
With an open mind, you will become a more knowledgeable and more complete human. And by doing that you will not only attract women but all kinds of different opportunities into your life.
The books I'm focusing on here are about the process of dating. This list is not about building long-term relationships.
So that being said here is my list of best dating books for men.
The top dating books for men:
The Mystery Method :How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed.
The Mystery Method was written by Mystery the mentor of Neil Stauss the author of the Game. This book is the blueprint that Mystery created to seduce beautiful women. The book uses a scientific approach to dating.
Although I did not agree with everything in this book I did learn a lot from it and the book at the time was unique and original. In many ways, this book was responsible for the whole evolution of the so-called “pickup artist” scene of the early 2000s.
The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists .
By Neil Strauss
The Game is the story of Neil Strauss and how he went from average frustrated chump to the best pick up artist in the world.
Strauss tells the story of how he transformed himself into “Style” his new game identity.In the book all of the pickup artists had names they would use in the field and Strauss was known as Style.
Strauss was mentored by Mystery who at the time was the best in the business. And the book goes into how Style and Mystery dominated the dating scene in Los Angeles.
Whatever you think about the characters in the book you have to admire Strauss for taking himself out of his comfort zone and transforming himself in the best pick up artist in the world.
The whole story is fascinating, hilarious and crazy at times.Even if you are not interested in improving your dating skills this book is so well written that you will find yourself laughing and shaking your head many times through this book.
By Eric Von Sydow
Metawhore is the story of one of the original dating mindset coaches and hypnotists Eric Von Sydow, AKA Hypnotica. Eric Von Sydow known as Rasputin in the book The Game was the mindset coach for many of the top dating guys like Neil Strauss and David DeAngelo.
Metawhore takes you into the world of nonconformity where Eric Von Sydow explores reality, sexuality, dating and the mind. It's a unique story by a unique individual that will make you look at your own life in a critical way.
Good book for anyone wants to see a totally different perspective on life and personal development.
MODE ONE: Whisper Into a Woman's Ear What Is REALLY On Your Mind.
By Alan Roger Currie
Mode one is unique in the men's dating community in terms of the philosophy that the author teaches. Mode One is about men verbally communicating their sexual desires to women. Alan Roger Currie is a verbal communication expert and encourages men to be bold and straightforward with women.
This is in total contrast with most other dating philosophies that take a more indirect approach.I think there is a lot of value in Mode One and I have had a lot of success with this approach in the right context. Mode One is an honest, confident, upfront, and straightforward style to approaching women and dating.
Fundamentals of Female Dynamics.
By Michael Knight
The Fundamentals of Female Dynamics is an underrated dating book that takes a different angle when it comes to seduction. This is not a seduction technique book, it approaches pickup more like an art than a science.
The author does a good job of explaining the fundamentals of attraction by starting from first principles. This book might not be for the beginner but it's a great book for anyone who wants to understand the social dynamics of dating better.
Art of Seduction: An Indispensible Primer on the Ultimate Form of Power .
By Robert Greene
From Robert Greene the author of the 48 Laws of Power comes another great book and this time on the topic of seduction.
The book is a comprehensive guide to getting what you want when it comes to seduction.
Greene goes back in history to study some of the greatest minds of history and brings back the lessons of the masters of seduction.
This book will give you unique insights into some of the greatest seducers in history.
What Every BODY Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People .
By Joe Navarro
This book is on the topic of body language written by a former FBI agent. Most of human communication happens through body language.
The author teaches and explains how to “speed-read” people and how to use your own body language to influence they people around you.
One of the interesting things in this book is that the author points out that the best place to get an idea for someone's true feelings is not the face but rather other parts of the body.
So this was my best books for men – on dating. Hope you enjoy the books and remember whatever book you read take action on the information or you are wasting your time.
Until next time…