So your dating sucks at the moment?
When is the last time you had sex?
Was it weeks ago?
Was it months ago?
Or worst-case scenario years ago.
All of these timelines are bad.
If you are a strong independent man you should be having sex regularly.
I get it, we all have dry spells.
Times in our lives where we have setbacks.
Setbacks at work?
Setbacks in your personal life?
Maybe your longtime girlfriend left you?
Maybe you are overweight?
Maybe you are lazy?
Or maybe there is something else?
And believe me when I say there is always something else.
Something keeping you back from having success with women and dating.
There is a reason why dating sucks for you at the moment.
In the modern world, we are living in big cities with complex communication systems.
But somehow people struggle to communicate.
The problem is not the communication system or the fact that many western women are undatable.(extreme feminism).
But the feminist issue I will get into in another post.
For now, lest look at things we can change not things we can't change(western women).
So like I said maybe your dating life sucks right now?
That is why you are reading this post.
Let's take a look at your choices if your dating sucks:
So what are you going to do?
What can you do if you are a virgin again?
Stay where you are and become weaker by the minute.
There is a reason powerful men have a lot of sex.
And it's not just the obvious reason that it's awesome and fun.
There is a more important reason.
Powerful men in history have realized the more sex they have the more power they get.
The more sex they have the more powerful their own energy becomes.
There is some mystical aspect to sex which we cannot yet explain.
But the powerful men on this planet know this.
The more sex they have more creative, energetic and powerful they become.
This is why you see a lot very powerful men get addicted to sex and get involved in sex scandals.
Obviously, you don't want to take it that far but I'm just making a point.
The less sex a man has the more weak and desperate he becomes.
He loses his drive,, and confidence.
People sense this and treat him accordingly.
So if you see yourself as weak and pathetic and you are cool with it then accept it.
If you are not cool with it then keep on reading.
Settle is also a very popular choice in the world.
It's very common in the middle class.
It's a great way to keep up with the Joneses.
Men reach a certain point before they feel the need to suddenly drop their balls and settle.
They don't do it because they really want to, but because they feel the walls closing in on them.
They see people around them marrying and having kids.
They then think they have to do that as soon as possible.
They have to do it now before they don't get another chance.
So what do they do?
They take the first women that will have them and that's it.
Obviously, in most cases, this ends up in a life that is a nightmare and misery.
When you settle on just anyone you can get, you give up.
You stop living like a man that lives his life on his own terms.
Fear takes over your mind and you give up.
You walk up with a great big neon sign that says “Please just love me and marry me so people will accept me”.
Now don't get me wrong, marriage and kids are great on your own terms.
If you get to a point where you consciously without external pressure make the choice to do it, then great.
If you do it your way and you do it from a position of power then good for you.
But never settle out of a position of fear.
What is our last choice?
Well, it's my recommended choice.
This choice will be the hardest choice to make.
But this choice is a choice to face the world like a man.
This choice will not only give you a sense of fulfillment but also a lot of sex.
This choice will be challenging and will ask you do to do something I mention a lot on this blog.
It will ask you to take responsibility.
Responsibility for current position regarding women and everything else in your life.
Why take responsibility?
Well, because if you take responsibility it means you take the power back.
You now have the power to change it.
Because if you are responsible for your life it means you control it.
This is not going to be easy.
It is going to ask a lot from you.
One of the things that it will ask from you is to step out of your comfort zone.
Taking responsibility is an important but simple part.
The real challenge is where you move past your own fears and insecurities.
Because with women it always comes back to you and your own mind.
You cant expect to have high-quality women in your life if you take the same actions you have always been taken.
You need to reexamine your life and rebuild it.
Life operates on a cause and effect system.
Therefore the actions you have been taken for years have not given you the effects you wanted.
You are standing with your dick in your hand for a reason.
The reason is whatever it is that you are doing now is not working.
The first thing you need to do is to go back to the fundamentals of who you are.
Because if you have been going without sex for months or years then there is a problem.
You have shit going on in your life that needs fixing.
And those things usually have nothing to do with women.
The mind is a mirror and if you have dark shit inside you women will sense that and they will reject you.
We all have a story that holds us back.
Things that keep us from living the life we want.
It's impossible to tell you exactly what is your biggest challenge without talking with you.
However, the basics of living a strong life is always a good starting point.
These things might seem like they have nothing to do with women but they do.
High-quality women want someone in their lives that brings value.
If you are someone with no value why should she give you the time of day?
Now, this doesn't mean you have to be a millionaire although that does help.
It also doesn't mean you need to be looking like Brad Pitt, however, it will help you are at least looking your best.
But let's look at the fundamentals:
(1)Take Ownership Of Everything In Your Life.
One thing is certain until you claim responsibility for the fact that it's your fault your dating life sucks nothing will change.
(2)Become The Hero Of Your Own Movie.
Start seeing your life as a movie and you are the main character.
Start the movie where you are making your comeback in life.
You start your transformation as a man and start taking control.
Think of all great action movies like Batman and Rocky.
The stories are the same.
Make your story great.
(3)Being Yourself Is Not Enough.
The person you are now is not enough.
You need to top clawing to that identity you have.
The way you are seeing yourself now is holding you back from the life you want to live.
Let go of that person and become someone you admire.
You have the opportunity on this planet to become whoever you want to be.
Just understand that just being yourself is not enough.
Being “yourself” is just something you created in your mind.
You can create someone new.
The reality is that this “self” you are holding onto got you into this position.
(4)Winning In Life Is A Conscious Choice.
You have to choose to start winning in life.
It's a mind shift.
Wherever you right now stop for a second.
Right now you have a choice.
A choice to accept your current position.
Or make the decision that you will not accept anything else other than winning.
Start shifting your mindset from just competing to one of demanding to win.
Become obsessed with winning in this life.
If you are just cruising and hoping not to upset anybody you are done and lost.
You consciously choose how it's going to go on this planet.
You choose to play small and stay mediocre.
Or you start by playing to win.
Make a decision right now.
(5)Master Your Emotions.
Emotions are some the most powerful things in the universe.
It can transform or destroy individuals and even countries.
It has the power to push people into deep dark corners of depression.
And it has the power to push someone to greatness and success.
The difference is that some people are totally controlled by their emotions.
This is the majority of the planet.
Then there is a small group of people that have learned to control their emotions.
They have realized the immense power of emotions and learned to channel them for their own success.
You can use both pain and pleasure to drive you to whatever you want.
(6)Take Control Of Your Body.
In all areas of life, your body is key.
You need to stay strong, fit and healthy.
This is not just to look great naked, but also to be able to be ready for anything on this planet we live on.
When your body is running on optimal levels everything else is better
You feel more confident, have better sex, you focus better, you feel more relaxed and get better sleep.
(7)Become Obsessed With Your Mission In Life.
One of the biggest mistakes guys make is that they get pulled off their mission in pursuit of women.
They literally stop everything so that they can chase girls.
They give up their power and jump whenever the girl calls.
When she calls the guy drops his work and runs after her.
He thinks this will get him what he wants.
The truth is that its a test.
She will see how easily she got you off your mission and she will lose respect for you.
(8)Who Dares Wins.
Staying in your little comfort zone is going to get you absolutely nowhere.
Realize that you need to go above and beyond what you're doing now to get what you want with women and dating.
You need to dare greatly to win.
If you think you cant talk to that really beautiful women at the coffee shop then ask yourself this:
The answer is that there is no reason.
You are just being a pussy.
(9)The Way You look matters.
Forget about people saying looks don't matter. It does, but not in the way you think.
You don't need to look like a movie star, but you need to look like the best version of you.
What does this mean? It means get in shape and lift some weights.
Eat healthily and take care of your grooming.
And also start dressing like a man.
Stop dressing like a chump and start taking care of the way you dress.
(10)Become Someone That Confronts His Inner Bitch.
We all have a little inner bitch.
That little voice that pops up whenever we need to do something that is out of our comfort zone.
That voice that comes up when we need to go talk to that girl, go for a run, go to the gym, do that project or anything else important.
That little bitch that says “You can't do that”.